I met with a friend last week who felt that his wife might have cheated on him. He found texts and Facebook posts that danced on a line of inappropriate behavior. It was saddening to consider the struggles that he and his wife are now facing.
I am reminded of a segment on Dr Phil where he explains:
“The best definition I’ve ever found for flirting or inappropriateness is: Would you do exactly the same thing with her standing there? If the answer is no, then there’s your answer. It’s crossed a boundary.”
If your day was replayed to your spouse as a video, would you be able to face her (him) without apologizing?
If not, you have some work to do.
Thanks for listening.