If people aren’t ready to listen… it doesn’t matter what you say, or how you say it.
People can’t hear if they aren’t ready to hear. Therefore, it is our job in the communication process to assess if their defenses are up…and to make it “safe” so they can listen. Otherwise, we are just wasting our time and hurting the relationship.
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